To get validated and to always be reminded that I can exist while being fully myself and still be accepted.

To know that I have something in common with other people, that I’m not the only person who thinks and feels the way I do, to not feel alone/lonely.

So I feel held and loved just the way I am, and I can do the same for others.

I think it’s easier to navigate your personal journey when you have like-minded people that can support you positively in various aspects of your life.

So I can have an army behind me when fighting bigots and phobes of all sorts.

Moving from monogamy to polyamory is pretty terrifying - it’s great to have people who can advise, support, and relate!

To be reassured that I exist.To feel that I belong.To delight in the gifts of others.To be in it together.