I didn't even need a reason. He could have just said he decided he doesn't want to see me anymore. That's it. That's all I wanted.
I feel like shouting from the metaphorical rooftop of dating apps...TREAT PEOPLE LIKE PEOPLE!
Itβs all about managing expectations.
I think of reaching out as standing up for myself and speaking out for my needs.
I do think everyone deserves closure, at the very least.
We are all paying for someone else mistakes and we are all making mistakes for someone else to pay.
I try my best to be kind to people telling them how I feel if I donβt want to talk to them anymore. If they donβt take it well, I can always block them.
We need to stop protecting people's feelings at the expense of our own.
If reaching out is gonna make you feel good, do it.