you can check what's your love language with this quiz.
Iβll go first:
1/ words of affirmation.
2/ it makes me feel super special when i hear words of affirmation of any kind, it makes me feel energised and powerful. i love it when someone notices what's different about the way i look for instance. i also love to hear nice things that make me feel my partner understand the specifics of my job because it's not something many do, i love my job and it can feel super lonely so the connection potential here can be huge, especially as it gives me motivation
1/ I always thought mine was touch but apparently it's quality time! π π The more you learn 2/ I literally just found out so no idea at this point hahahahhaa will think about it π
1/ Acts of Service2/ Back to the co-dependance discussion. π I've always felt that actions speak louder than words, so it makes sense that actions showing the love work best for me. I really enjoy when people join me on my weird adventures, and often see myself taking it as a sign of lack of love when people won't. The people i feel like partnering with, are the ones that share in activities indeed. Funky to realize that other people simply have other ways to show the love haha
1/ Touch 2/ Touch gives me the feeling Iβm connected to the person who touches me. A feeling of safety, care and love too. I think it has to do with self-esteem x race: when I was at primary school kids were not touching me fearing I was dirty because Arab, so I guess missing casual touch had an impact on me. And, subsequently, on my primary love language.
1) I got 5x 20%2) I guess that means, show me love however you want to. It will always have the desired effect on me?