Not expecting a single person to fill my needs, and allowing myself and my partner to branch out to fulfill those needs in a healthy way while being committed and respectful to everyone involved.
To be truthful to myself and to my partners and truthful to my words on any level.
That I can have my family AND explore sexually, without having to give up one for the other. It’s also given me access to an entire local community I wouldn’t have had ready access to otherwise.
Freedom to share my care, love, and affection with many incredible people, in a way that respects and values all our feelings, needs and expectations.