I use the YES Organics range. Personal preference, as wasn't happy using certain chemicals intimately, just because they taste niceMy experience is that anal lube is better than something oily, since it doesn't lubricate itself but then there's the oil and condom issue of courseI use their water-based one elsewhere Also, their vaginal moisturising gel can be great for nerves and menopause which can lead to a lack of lubrication and pain

I was also listening to this podcast the other day where she has thought out a complete step-wise tutorial of the perfect blow job. she’s very serious about the hand twists as well.

I have had a lingam massage that looked a lot like the techniques from that book. There are a lot of “tutorial” videos online. I remember that hegre art had very beautiful ones.

I prefer warm oil products for external things like massages and hand jobs. Then lube for anything internal. I always find that you constantly have to replenish lube as it absorbs into the penis/hand. Whereas warm oil lasts and feels great for both parties

Had an interesting discovery with one of my metamours recently: different parts of the penis head being a lot more sensitive! Biologically I think the head is usually more sensitive than the rest of the penis? But in particular, for me the top side is a lot more sensitive whereas for him it is the underside!

I came across something cool the other day called "The 3 minute game". You basically take it in turns to ask each other these two questions:"How do you want me to touch you for 3 minutes" and "How do you want to touch me for 3 minutes"A friend shared it with me in relation to an intimacy exercise from their therapist. It doesn't necessarily have to be sexual but it seems to promote communication around physical connection so that might be good 😊 Source.

I prefer warm oil over lube, grapeseed oil is perfect for overall massage as well as hand jobs. Just pour it into a bottle and sit it in a jug of warm water for a little while

I’m back home and I have that book with crazy technics #resource