I love when someone is really passionate about what they’re into. I dated someone who was really interested in 20th-century history and I loved listening to them talk about it.

Confidence, consent, an open mind and for me the biggest single turn on is them knowing what they want.

Being honest, open and curious. Having countless conversations about anything and everything. Caring about my passions even if they're not interested in them personally.

Confidence and sense of humour.

The basic understanding of 1. What is good for me? What brings me joy? Keeps me sane? Aligns with my values? 2. the ability to understand that for themselves 3. the ability to express that in a clear, non-violent way to others.

Self-awareness and the ability to put the work into themselves when needed.